Meredith Kercher victim of whom? A game among friends gone bad? A small group of people with an idea that involved other stupid, or simply the victim of a manipulative mind and unconscious creators? Why such a case, a year later continues to discuss, to divide public opinion and create a sensation?
A tragedy like that fatally realized the worst fears of all parents who allow their children to university in those faraway places in which they reside.
The easiest answer is that it is the fault of the place, and the environment of the city of Perugia. It is more convenient to demonize a city, rather than reflect and retrace the steps that turn decent boys, apparently calm, ruthless beasts in that fury with violence on a defenseless girl.
This may be the starting point for the evaluation and observation of the incident. The social environment may be causing the damage?
If the families they belong to and are able to introject the age of development, standards, rules, values, moral principles and boundaries of tolerance, capacity for choice, legal behavior, to clarify some aspects educationally relevant, the consequences of building up of the adult and the ability to structure and to learn, through the establishment of relationships, can allow a balance before themselves and the outside world.
If young people have not traveled the necessary steps and were not accompanied with proper balance to the attainment of maturity, the paths of life can be strongly affected by scroll and risky forms of socialization in which the meaning of education is totally absent.
is, like, the choice between two options of life between study, dedication, effort, results, satisfaction and, conversely, risk, transgression, intemperance, false.
City University, lived as a city of experimentation, margime to the degree course. Unfortunately, as a prevalent way of socialization, such as extreme violation and permanent expulsion from the family of origin.
The human being needs to initiation rites in order to substantiate its growth process. But adults and society as a natural need to accompany this growth?
The most crucial stages of the stages or rites of growth, are too often made in the shade.
What has changed today is that the sources from which they draw examples or models, inducing suggestions, and countless others are powerful tools to circumvent mediation or make less and less influential mediation with the adult. If we adults are, despite themselves, sucked from the daily tension that distracts from education in favor of the production, the lack of responsibility and failure of the education gap is a natural consequence of education.
The loss that we read in the faces of being investigated, the disbelief at what happened before, are the clearest evidence of this fracture and results in the inability to understand that even a game report, in some cases, it can cost you your life.
Fiorenza Sarzanini As the journalist, the picture that emerges from the minutes of young people who attended Meredith and her friends is that of a "large group". Children who moved to Perugia to study, live away from their families and do not seem to have rules. Children who live at night, wandering from party to party, often get drunk and smoke blunts to stupefy.
Guys, I might add, who have misunderstood the meaning of hospitality and all those friends who consider entering the home.
But people are not educated the perceived limits, to know means to adhere to forms of transgression are clearly beyond the threshold of deviance, as if in this case, criminal act. Here part of the amazement of those who had to be shaken before, in healthy form and referred to the few, but fundamental rules of social life.
To return to the original question, Meredith Kercher: a victim of whom? Sacrificial victim of an initiation rite of growth failure.
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